Friday, April 10, 2020
3 Ways Women Sabotage Themselves in Business
3 Ways Women Sabotage Themselves in Business Thereâs a new book out there by Tara Mohr called Playing Big, and everyone should read it. Itâs a how-to for brilliant and talented women who are playing it too small and could really use a chance to break out of self-sabotaging patterns to fully live up to their potential. googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1467144145037-0'); }); Here are three takeaway strategies to counteract some common things you might be doing to hold yourself back.1. Change the âthis before thatâ approachWeâre all guilty of this one. âIâll have that chat with my boss once Iâve done x, y, and z.â Or, âIâll approach this contact once I have x, y, and z to show for myself.â Sometimes weâre being careful and coming up with a solid game plan, but other times weâre just scared to make the big moves.If you find yourself having a âthis before thatâ moment, ask yourself if that assumption is based on real strategy, or if whether you just assume you arenât r eady for the next step. If you canât find any real reasons to wait, then donât.2. Donât let your âcommitment to qualityâ hold you backSometimes âcommitment to qualityâ just means overcomplicating things and âendless polishing.â Being detail-oriented and quality-concerned is great, but can be crippling. Rather than obsess over details at every stage, allow yourself to brainstorm, think big, and let your preliminary work be just thatâ"preliminary. Waiting for every idea and aspect of a project to be perfect will delay its completion and your success. Besides, it might just be a cover-up for fear and insecurity. Be bold and own your work.3. Donât hold yourself back because you donât have the degreeMohr says, âTalented women with a dream believe they need another degree, training, or certification because they are not enough as they are. We all like the structure and reassurance of being a student, but sometimes itâs time to take the leap into the big, bad bus iness world without the safety net.Figure out what you can do with the training you already have and start there. Donât take no for an answer. Get as far as you possibly canâ"and only stop for more education when itâs absolutely necessary. Youâll probably surprise yourself at how far you can go without that next degree.Make 2016 the year of you. Make sure youâre not holding yourself back because you donât think youâre good enough. Chances are, you are your own worst limiting factor. Get out of your own way!3 Ways You May be Sabotaging Yourself at Work (and what to do about it)
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